[SpookyZalost]

you should try it sometime, it's interesting, provided all the parties are willing and accepting of the idea and from both an evolutionary perspective and a social perspective it's more stable I think.

I'm totally open to it. The wife is open to it, just doesn't want to share. So, we are at an impasse.  

We've already had some long talks about it. I've never understood why it is shunned to love more than one person at a time.

I guess I'm sorta lucky then in that I've experienced it for a short period of time... it helps if one of the two partners is bisexual of course and open minded but it's also tricky because society kinda gears you for bi-amorus relationships rather than poly-amorous ones so you have to open your mindset more, relax about stuff, and learn to trust your partners more than you might trust just an individual one.

as a side effect however the odds of cheating and stuff go down I think since all parties involved aren't relying on just one other person for their emotional and occasionally physical needs.

anyway that's my perspective on it, as for what I'm listening to...

Horror is dead - Dead man's party (Oingo Boingo Cover)