[Juneberry]

My grandmother is a total narcissist, but she also holds her family to insane standards. She was a nurse and a social worker, but the moment I was diagnosed with any form of mental illness (I have a number of them) she would be in full denial because obviously no family member of her's can be less than perfect since she's absolutely perfect. -.- She treats most of us like dirt and pins us against each other, she's always demanding things be her way even when it's hurting someone else... especially me. She can't seem to understand why I don't want to go to her house now that my uncle, who sexually harasses me, is always there. She's just... ugh.

Honestly, I mostly avoid her. I'll talk to her on holidays for a short period, but that's it. I just can't deal with her bullshit. Unfortunately it doesn't sound like something you can do in your position. I hope things start to look brighter soon!